Rate Yourself
How consistently do you do this? (1 = Strongly Disagree, 5 = Strongly Agree)
I have difficult conversations early, while problems are still small.
I deliver direct feedback without sugarcoating it into meaninglessness.
My candor is rooted in genuine care for the person's development.
I serve people's interests even when it's uncomfortable.
I don't let performance slide to avoid awkwardness.
I check on people ('Are you okay?') when their performance slips, before I escalate.
I am direct without being cruel, honest without bullying.
No one on my team wonders where they stand with me.
I schedule the conversation I'm dreading rather than hoping it resolves itself.
People leave hard conversations with me knowing I want them to succeed.